Big boy dont cry?

I now realized how important observation is in therapy/counseling session. I appreciate the idea of reasoning and thinking along the way of my thoughts that my lecturer merge myself in. I am aware that I am not looking in a wider perspective.

Basically, our minds work by how we have been raised up. We learned from parents, cultures, the do's and dont's throughout years. Guess we all prolly familiar with 'Men didnt seems much expressive as compared to women. They dont have emotions. They dont cry'. We assume that the ego in them builds up wall but the subliminal issues are because they have been raised that way, they have been taught that Youre a big boy, and big boy dont cry. 

All the minor things you say to your children would shape them in the future. You may not see em as a problem, but dont take it for granted.