To be ones' ears help us to value things better. If you spare a little time of yourself to listen, to understand someones, you will be prone to improve & improvise yourself into ethically and psychologically-ameliorate. By the stories shared by them, you will know how offended someone could be over certain things, even the silliest ones. So you'll learn not to say things bluntly onto people face. You will know that some people went through a real hard time, so you now realize how affected someones' could be caught under certain circumstances. You will now realize how grateful you are, to be compared to them. Besides, you will get the opportunity to witness even the toughest person get hurt eventually. Obviously, don't take them for granted regardless how tough they seems to be.
So lets be a listener more. Lend your ears & attention to someone you are close with. Trust me you won't lose anything. Even though you may not be giving much of help towards the person himself, at least they can help you change your own perspectives. Don't get me wrong, this is not you taking advantage on their trusts to you.
Do know that sometimes the person insists to talk without actually hoping for a verbal response unless they asks for solutions/recommendations/advice. They just want you to sit and listen. You can be that one good being, ones could ever have!
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If you want to train yourself to be a good listener, this is a good article to read on:
I HEAR YOU: 5 TIPS BEING A GOOD LISTENER
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